The conversation started in a lighthearted way, but changed a little as we got deeper into the conversation. One friend felt very strongly that it is awful to perpetuate a long-existing myth with your children. Most of the other moms were taken back by this and didn't quite know what to say. (This particular mom doesn't celebrate Halloween or allow her kids to either, albeit for a very different reason. She believes that people could easily make Halloween a very ugly celebration.)
So this discussion about Santa Claus turned into more of an in-depth conversation about the meaning behind it all; we also talked about the ever increasing commercialization of this holiday, how easy it is to forget the true meaning of the holiday and get caught up in all the hype.
Later, as I was thinking it all over when I was at home, I thought about my friend's point, and then explored how I felt about it all. Virginia's letter to the editor came to mind, along with the reply, "Yes, Virginia, There Is a Santa Claus." (If you're not sure what I'm talking about read about it on a Hub page I wrote going into more detail. My Hub page is entitled, "'Is There a Santa Claus' - Revisited.")
So do YOU think there's harm in living out the dream of Santa Claus with your children? What do YOU do to keep the true meaning of Christmas alive? Does Santa overpower it all?
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